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Sunday, March 25, 2012

Cheater, Cheater!! Pumkin Eater!!

Yup, cheater husbands, what is up with that?! What makes a man want to cheat on his wife? Men; can you answer this one. I guess it's raging hormones. Or because his wife of upteen years is not feeling it with him anymore. Or maybe it's because she is going through something that is making her feel that way, and has brought it up to her doctor about it. And suggestions were made, by her doctor. Stuff happens in a relationship that is just too hard to explain. I guess when you are married longer than ten years, you get to that point where you are not really feeling it for some strange reason. And the husband turns to porn, and it gets to the point where it ends up getting out of hand. He ends up what he thinks is being secret about it. Little does he know, that women are not stupid, it doesn't matter what hair color we have! She has this feeling that something isn't right. You know; when you have been with a person for so many years, you know what makes the other one tick, and you also remember how you two got together. And then getting to know eachother as time goes on. As from a female's point of view; it's like we remember everything. We remember how our man used to treat us. I'm not putting all men down. Their are really good men out there. Besides, we're all human, and humans do make a lot of mistakes. Usually the same mistake over, and over, and over again. Well, like I was saying; this husband makes the mistake of leaving his cell on the charger in the living room. While he is back in the room sleeping, yes she gets up early; she checks his cell and looks at the text messages back and fourth. Hmm, sure enough. Well, what do ya know; he did the nasty with another who from probally reading these texts, has no idea that he is married to another! So, wow! This is really a good one, nice going dude!! What's really sad about this is that not women confront their other halfabout this; or at least not right away. Why, hmmm. I am having trouble trying to figure that one out. Maybe she is waiting for just the right time to get all out in the open. Yup, we know when don't we. It's really funny how we think and do. I'm not saying we're manipulative, we just get to that certain point, where enough is enough. Your out!! For years you sacrafice, with no complaints. Only for him to go and cheat on you with someone he calls; my love!!! When, all this time she thought she was his love; because that is he has told her for so many years. Woe! I'm no expert, so I will just leave it at that. Have a good one, and God Bless!! Peace in your heart!

Friday, March 23, 2012

Not The Greatet News/ Heard Worse

Well hello everyone! As you already heard from my video blog post, yes it did spread. Once again; I heard the same line that I heard back in 2010 of November, a month after I had found out that I have inflammatory breast cancer; I was given an expiration date back then. When I heard the news that it spread; I didn't feel like it was the end for me. I believe that I was given another challenge to deal with it as I choose. And I choose to keep fighting no matter what! Someone told me something last week when I was at church; staying positive is key. And also, pray to never lose your faith! I definitly needed that reminder! Praying to never lose my faith, and stay positive; which I had already been doing. But I have already been doing so, since I heard that not so lovely news back in "10". Praying, staying strong in the faith, getting prayers from everyone, staying positive, & and laughing! I really like having a good laugh; it gets me in a better mood. Praying, and laughing always lifts up my spirits! Doesn't hurt to shed tears every now then either. Just let it out!! It's not healthy to hold it in. I'm no expert. Don't claim to be either. It doesn't take a rocket scientest to know that one out though. It will only make you feel worse. Well, that is all. Please take care, and God Bless! Peace...


Sunday, March 11, 2012

Worried? Me; No Way!!

Well, hello everyone! Well as of last week, I had my CT and Bone scan done. Sooo, am I worried about the results of these tests? At first; maybe. Not so much now though. I had those tests before. And with God's grace; I am still here, Amen!! Grant it, I won't lie; it really does suck to have this! But,I shouldn't complain. It could have been worse. I could not have checked and never found out and not be here right now. But; I did check my breasts and found something that was a little unusual. And yes, so did my husband. I won't get into detail, though it is what helped me still be here today folks! And I still check for anything else unusual. I have to. I do my best also to stay positive; regardless of this trial that I am being put through. I stay strong for my children, because even though they know what I have and what I am getting done every week; I still want them to have a normal as possible kind of life. When they are at school, or even when they are home; I have that moment when I just want to cry or if I'm really in one of those moods when I need to punch a pillow or the bed, I come back to the bedroom. It really helps relieve all the pain and the frustration of this bad C word I'm going through. Yes, I do pray to our God everyday and every night. He knows me! He knew me before I was born, before I was even thought of; period!! And with all the prayers I'm getting; and the support of everyone who knows my family & myself; (even those who don't know us as well praying for us), Thank you!! It is very comforting to know. This coming Thursday I start another 'round'! You see, I go three weeks on; one week off. Then on the fourth week; which is this coming week; I get all 3. Blood work, Doctor, & last but not least the infusion area for my chemo treatment! I will also be hearing the results of last weeks tests. Like I said, no worries. I leave it in God's hands! I'm praying that no matter what I hear; I will keep on moving! With my other tests that weren't as great, something was done about it! They are doing they're best to keep me around for as long as possible, they know that rest is up to God! Yes, I mention God all the time in my blogs! And I have no shame in doing so! I believe in him, and I believe he is keeping me here for a really good reason! And so I have a really good reason to be greatful to him!! God is good indeed! One of these days though, I am bound and determined to get a pink wig!! And where it to represent everyone going through, or has fought and won, or for those fought and are no longer with us! I feel we are all a big family going through this! We are bound together! It really sucks having this! But I know we can stick together and fight this! Also, I wouldn't mind having a purple wig either; to represent all types of cancer. I probally sound silly. But, that's alright; because sometimes I am silly! Lol, can't help it! Besides, there is nothing wrong with being a little silly once in a while! If it's what gets a person through the day, or if you had a hard day. It helps to have a silly moment! Well, that is all for right now. I have to get up early this morning. Yes, I said, this morning, because it is after 1:30 am right now on my side of the fence, for those who live in different time zones. God Bless, and have a good one! Peace....